Not long after gentleman #1 up above was hurt, I had a guy friend who was in the ARMY in Afghanistan write a letter to me expressing his feelings and I too put him down. He's married with two beautiful kids, so I don't feel too bad...but it's just knowing that I had shot him down during a time in which he was vulnerable and risking his life so people like me and his family could enjoy our everyday lives was a weird experience. He and I are actually friends on Facebook, so I don't have to lurk around to actually find his status'...his wife is a lucky woman. I do not envy her every time she has to say "goodbye" to him though when he leaves for months at a time. Does that make me a bad person?? I just don't think I could handle two kids and no husband around to help...those who can handle it I commend them!
Anyways...I just needed to get this off my chest. More later.